Today is my birthday. I'm 34. Next year I get tagged with "Advanced Maternal Age", if I ever manage to get pregnant again. I am determined that the news on Friday will not spoil my birthday. Determined I tell you. Tonight, I get to go out to dinner to the resaurant of my choice. I'll have cake. I'll smile. I'll enjoy today. Tomorrow is soon enough to dwell again.
#Microblog Monday 517: The Way Back
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Happy birthday!! You're absolutely right, you deserve to enjoy today. Tomorrow is tomorrow!
Happy Birthday! Absolutely enjoy today, and be present in the moment!
Here from Mel's site -- I just wanted to let you know that in May of 2007 I was home after a Memorial Day weekend and my husband got off a call with X (as I call her) with that look on his face -- and at that moment when he told me I lost my mind a little -- we'd be trying for years (and would try for a few more before succeeding with IVF) -- and I screamed as I never had, keened, crawled in a ball in our bed and cried over and over.
I am so so sorry. I know that particular place of the stepmother trying to conceive. My new blog deals mostly with motherhood now -- but if you'd like to see the archives of my other blog feel free to contact me and I'll put your email on the list (because I wrote for years without X's knowledge I finally got paranoid after a friend's blog was outed and made mine invitation only.)
I hope you have a wonderful birthday.
Best to you,
Pam
Oops, my email address is somewhat hard to find - -wordgirlbloodsigns@gmail.com
I hope you had a great birthday party despite the news you received. I understand, a little. Dh's cousin was pregnant while I was going through fertility treatments -- I got this small square envelope in the mail one day & I didn't even have to look at it. I knew it was an invitation to her baby shower, & I KNEW it would be the weekend of my 40th birthday. And of course it was. I cried for two hours straight.
Would you believe I went to the shower? And came down with shingles (which can be stress induced) right afterward??
Be kind to yourself. (((hugs)))
Happy belated Birthday!!!
I was considered to be of Advanced Maternal Age with my son, for the most part things were not that different, I decided to do the 2 part IPS screening, once I passed that there was no other differences.
Happy ICLW
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